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17 Sep 2012 - 23:4491112
Quote Karakulz:
^ This.

Yeah nice guys, Im surrounded by them but some of them seriously lack personality!

Its a main factor for me too but Looks do actually make a difference with me (Sorry to sound Shallow) But to be attracted to someone I have to be Physically Attracted as well everything else. Not to say they have to be like Model standard, But a nice face is all I need, then a great personality, a brain, a good sense of humour and similar interests to me, then we have the perfect candidtae! ^^;


I agree - you need to be attracted to each other physically as well as each other's personality. It really doesn't make you shallow!

I agree with Nixie as well - it does help to be on the same level mentally so you can have decent conversations.


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18 Sep 2012 - 00:0591115
Quote Isabela:
Quote Karakulz:
^ This.

Yeah nice guys, Im surrounded by them but some of them seriously lack personality!

Its a main factor for me too but Looks do actually make a difference with me (Sorry to sound Shallow) But to be attracted to someone I have to be Physically Attracted as well everything else. Not to say they have to be like Model standard, But a nice face is all I need, then a great personality, a brain, a good sense of humour and similar interests to me, then we have the perfect candidtae! ^^;


I agree - you need to be attracted to each other physically as well as each other's personality. It really doesn't make you shallow!

I agree with Nixie as well - it does help to be on the same level mentally so you can have decent conversations.


I think I'm possible less on the attractiveness (though it does help, I'm sure) because I don't consider myself to be close to pretty - no matter how many people say otherwise, I've heard it all, I just don't view myself pretty so I don't generally think about looks.

Instead I go for the guys you can converse in. I'm the geeky sort, haha.

But no! It doesn't make you shallow, imo. I think everyone has something they find attractive in a person :3


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18 Sep 2012 - 00:1391117
Quote NixieThePixie:


It's official. Cosplay Island needs a single club.


We need to get a Blind Date style thing going on.


18 Sep 2012 - 00:1991118
Quote puzzledpenguin:
Quote NixieThePixie:


It's official. Cosplay Island needs a single club.


We need to get a Blind Date style thing going on.


With the cosplays on, that's sort of covered. No one looks quite the same out of cosplay. x'D


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18 Sep 2012 - 00:4291120
Quote Isabela:
Quote Karakulz:
^ This.

Yeah nice guys, Im surrounded by them but some of them seriously lack personality!

Its a main factor for me too but Looks do actually make a difference with me (Sorry to sound Shallow) But to be attracted to someone I have to be Physically Attracted as well everything else. Not to say they have to be like Model standard, But a nice face is all I need, then a great personality, a brain, a good sense of humour and similar interests to me, then we have the perfect candidtae! ^^;


I agree - you need to be attracted to each other physically as well as each other's personality. It really doesn't make you shallow!

I agree with Nixie as well - it does help to be on the same level mentally so you can have decent conversations.


There are plenty of men (myself included) who think this way too. I personally could see a girl who's incredibly beautiful, yet if she opens her mouth and shows a nasty / vain personality she's a no-go. I've met my fair share however of girls with a perfect personality, only to find out they have a boyfriend ._.

My problem with being single isn't due to being too nice, I've just lived on a narrowboat away from civilisation for so long (and maybe the fact I was a hentai seller at the expo as many people automatically assume you're a pervert. I'm not, the yaoi guy is.)

Yet that's all changing as I've moved to London to go to uni and study Japanese

My new job? A voiceover artist!



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18 Sep 2012 - 07:3691128
Quote JaeXD:
Hey Climber, did I talk to you in the audience for the closing ceremony for Ame or did I drunkenly dream that? The half pint of jager was starting to impair my vision at that point.


Yeah you did. Sorry I wasn't that talkative. Had a few things on my mind.


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18 Sep 2012 - 08:3491129
Welll.. Woke up late... Really tired
and my cold has got worse >-< todays going to be a long day D:
hope you all have a better day


18 Sep 2012 - 09:0091130
Quote NixieThePixie:
Just being nice doesn't cut it. There has to be something else there personality wise too. And I'm not asking for super smart, I just want someone you can sit and have a proper conversation with about things that if a bit more depth than Batman.


Batman is the deepest, man. He's like amazing! The perfect guy imo.

Maybe I didn't make the term clear, but the nomenclature isn't important. We could debate what a nice guy is, but then that excercise has as much merit as explaining to my mother why the sun is a giant ball of fire in the sky because bless her little cotton socks, she's only going to forget tommorrow.

I actually do get into clashes online (I say clashes but hey, I care little about the fall out, look at all the shits I don't give) when I actually give solid advice to rant/vent posts. It's like advice isn't wanted, that individuals wish to vent and complain with no solution which opens the possibilities of the negativity happening once more. I for one find as much logic in this as the Jeremy Kyle show being in any way serious. I can't help it in the same way anyone else can't help it to rant, if you exist then so do I.

So I see a response to my post and a quick washover, back to square one, I'll pop the kettle on. But that's okay, no-one asked for advice so I can't protest to that, after all it is a vent thread and I'm cool with that.

However of those of you who've known me for a while and may know me IRL will see past my somewhat cavelier attitude. Currently I have a girlfriend and I adore her very much, some of you may have seen her work on this site. A lot of my friends don't have a girlfriend even though I know them to be geniunely good guys with a lot to talk about and are just like the men you've described. They don't have great luck because they simply do not know enough people and it's a little sad when I know what they're like and how well of a boyfriend they could be.

So here's an offer, send me a message if you'd like to take a chance. We'll talk, build bridges and the next event we're at you can meet said friends. From there there's nothing else you have to do unless you want to.

It's all numbers. Meet enough people and you'll get to someone compatible, meet enough decent people and you'll get there faster.


Quote Ice-climber:
Quote JaeXD:
Hey Climber, did I talk to you in the audience for the closing ceremony for Ame or did I drunkenly dream that? The half pint of jager was starting to impair my vision at that point.


Yeah you did. Sorry I wasn't that talkative. Had a few things on my mind.


It's cool, maybe next time eh? I'm not hard to miss so come find me and hang out.


18 Sep 2012 - 20:5691168
Quote JaeXD:
Quote NixieThePixie:
Just being nice doesn't cut it. There has to be something else there personality wise too. And I'm not asking for super smart, I just want someone you can sit and have a proper conversation with about things that if a bit more depth than Batman.


Batman is the deepest, man. He's like amazing! The perfect guy imo.

Maybe I didn't make the term clear, but the nomenclature isn't important. We could debate what a nice guy is, but then that excercise has as much merit as explaining to my mother why the sun is a giant ball of fire in the sky because bless her little cotton socks, she's only going to forget tommorrow.

I actually do get into clashes online (I say clashes but hey, I care little about the fall out, look at all the shits I don't give) when I actually give solid advice to rant/vent posts. It's like advice isn't wanted, that individuals wish to vent and complain with no solution which opens the possibilities of the negativity happening once more. I for one find as much logic in this as the Jeremy Kyle show being in any way serious. I can't help it in the same way anyone else can't help it to rant, if you exist then so do I.

So I see a response to my post and a quick washover, back to square one, I'll pop the kettle on. But that's okay, no-one asked for advice so I can't protest to that, after all it is a vent thread and I'm cool with that.

However of those of you who've known me for a while and may know me IRL will see past my somewhat cavelier attitude. Currently I have a girlfriend and I adore her very much, some of you may have seen her work on this site. A lot of my friends don't have a girlfriend even though I know them to be geniunely good guys with a lot to talk about and are just like the men you've described. They don't have great luck because they simply do not know enough people and it's a little sad when I know what they're like and how well of a boyfriend they could be.

So here's an offer, send me a message if you'd like to take a chance. We'll talk, build bridges and the next event we're at you can meet said friends. From there there's nothing else you have to do unless you want to.

It's all numbers. Meet enough people and you'll get to someone compatible, meet enough decent people and you'll get there faster.


Batman is awesome, don't get me wrong, but it doesn't make for an interesting relationship if that's the only topic you have to talk about. Especially when you can't even have a proper conversation about it, it's just "who'd win in a fight, Batman or Chuck Norris?" (which gets really boring after 30 minutes)

It's nice you have a lot of nice guys with personality where you live, but I don't. And I'm not in a financially safe place to gallivant all over the country to find one. Which is a bit silly to do anyway :/ But, hey, I'm trying to get into uni, so maybe a change of area will work out better

My response was more focussed that I've had a lot of people on my case asking me why I've not gone out with the guy who likes me from work, and it goes back to the fact I like having a bit more in-depth conversations.

Then again, I work in the factory; don't exactly need a brain to work in there.

Really tempted to take up your chance thing...


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18 Sep 2012 - 21:1991173
Quote NixieThePixie:
Quote JaeXD:
Quote NixieThePixie:
Just being nice doesn't cut it. There has to be something else there personality wise too. And I'm not asking for super smart, I just want someone you can sit and have a proper conversation with about things that if a bit more depth than Batman.


Batman is the deepest, man. He's like amazing! The perfect guy imo.

Maybe I didn't make the term clear, but the nomenclature isn't important. We could debate what a nice guy is, but then that excercise has as much merit as explaining to my mother why the sun is a giant ball of fire in the sky because bless her little cotton socks, she's only going to forget tommorrow.

I actually do get into clashes online (I say clashes but hey, I care little about the fall out, look at all the shits I don't give) when I actually give solid advice to rant/vent posts. It's like advice isn't wanted, that individuals wish to vent and complain with no solution which opens the possibilities of the negativity happening once more. I for one find as much logic in this as the Jeremy Kyle show being in any way serious. I can't help it in the same way anyone else can't help it to rant, if you exist then so do I.

So I see a response to my post and a quick washover, back to square one, I'll pop the kettle on. But that's okay, no-one asked for advice so I can't protest to that, after all it is a vent thread and I'm cool with that.

However of those of you who've known me for a while and may know me IRL will see past my somewhat cavelier attitude. Currently I have a girlfriend and I adore her very much, some of you may have seen her work on this site. A lot of my friends don't have a girlfriend even though I know them to be geniunely good guys with a lot to talk about and are just like the men you've described. They don't have great luck because they simply do not know enough people and it's a little sad when I know what they're like and how well of a boyfriend they could be.

So here's an offer, send me a message if you'd like to take a chance. We'll talk, build bridges and the next event we're at you can meet said friends. From there there's nothing else you have to do unless you want to.

It's all numbers. Meet enough people and you'll get to someone compatible, meet enough decent people and you'll get there faster.


Batman is awesome, don't get me wrong, but it doesn't make for an interesting relationship if that's the only topic you have to talk about. Especially when you can't even have a proper conversation about it, it's just "who'd win in a fight, Batman or Chuck Norris?" (which gets really boring after 30 minutes)

It's nice you have a lot of nice guys with personality where you live, but I don't. And I'm not in a financially safe place to gallivant all over the country to find one. Which is a bit silly to do anyway :/ But, hey, I'm trying to get into uni, so maybe a change of area will work out better

My response was more focussed that I've had a lot of people on my case asking me why I've not gone out with the guy who likes me from work, and it goes back to the fact I like having a bit more in-depth conversations.

Then again, I work in the factory; don't exactly need a brain to work in there.

Really tempted to take up your chance thing...


Go on, take a chance - you know you want to!


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18 Sep 2012 - 21:2791175
I agree, take that chance

Worst case is you don't like the person but best case is you get a possible relationship out of it.


18 Sep 2012 - 22:5291186
Taking a chance when you've nothing to lose is a rare opportunity to pass up.

Ask yourself how long you've been in the anime community and felt like you're in the same place you were a year ago. If you're happy there, that's fine. If you'd like to really get stuck in, then the next event you and I are at we'll have an "icebreaker" or something similar.

I can't say for definite right now, but I'll try to arrange something. If you like you can get me on FB and I'll add you to any event I'm heading to.

facebook.com/mojojaejae


18 Sep 2012 - 23:1391188
Quote JaeXD:
Taking a chance when you've nothing to lose is a rare opportunity to pass up.

Ask yourself how long you've been in the anime community and felt like you're in the same place you were a year ago. If you're happy there, that's fine. If you'd like to really get stuck in, then the next event you and I are at we'll have an "icebreaker" or something similar.

I can't say for definite right now, but I'll try to arrange something. If you like you can get me on FB and I'll add you to any event I'm heading to.

facebook.com/mojojaejae


JaeXD, are you the Cilla Black of Cosplay Blind Date? XP

Sorry lol (I already have your FB! I don't use mine much for personal shizz though)

and so people know, I am taking the chance thingie, as you need to move forward with stuffs! Not stay where you are.


New Rant: leatherette really stinks. It's horrid.


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18 Sep 2012 - 23:1691189
Quote NixieThePixie:
Quote JaeXD:
Taking a chance when you've nothing to lose is a rare opportunity to pass up.

Ask yourself how long you've been in the anime community and felt like you're in the same place you were a year ago. If you're happy there, that's fine. If you'd like to really get stuck in, then the next event you and I are at we'll have an "icebreaker" or something similar.

I can't say for definite right now, but I'll try to arrange something. If you like you can get me on FB and I'll add you to any event I'm heading to.

facebook.com/mojojaejae


JaeXD, are you the Cilla Black of Cosplay Blind Date? XP

Sorry lol (I already have your FB! I don't use mine much for personal shizz though)

and so people know, I am taking the chance thingie, as you need to move forward with stuffs! Not stay where you are.


New Rant: leatherette really stinks. It's horrid.


Good for you Only good things can happen from moving forward with stuffs!

And leatherette does stink, as I have recently found out myself! lol


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18 Sep 2012 - 23:2491190
Quote NixieThePixie:

JaeXD, are you the Cilla Black of Cosplay Blind Date? XP

Sorry lol (I already have your FB! I don't use mine much for personal shizz though)

and so people know, I am taking the chance thingie, as you need to move forward with stuffs! Not stay where you are.


New Rant: leatherette really stinks. It's horrid.


Thats Awesome, Good luck! ;3

I was in 2 minds about taking that chance but ive decided against it since I hope to start an apprenticeship soon or just get a job so who knows, maybe I'll find someone then? ;D


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18 Sep 2012 - 23:3791191
Freakin'. Kids. Totally out of control today, I honestly don't know what had gotten into them! Some of them were so lippy, then they were complaining they didn't get the student of the week trophy! hkdbkjashdfdhfkldefjkd

On a more serious note, about the singles thing, looking at you people's pictures I am... Pretty surprised a lot of you are single, to be honest!

I'd also like to say about me, that truthfully I do find it really hard to meet people. I only have one friend in my area who is into anime with me, and with both our schedules it's ultra rare we even get to meet up, let alone meet all his friends etc.

Also, much as I hate to admit it, I am kinda oblivious... I've only really had one girlfriend, and that was ages ago, it didn't last very long and didn't end very well and since then I just really can't recall any girls who've shown an interest in me or if I'm just too... Oblivious. Doesn't help that I have no friggin' clue as to how I look, I've literally heard it all from being drop dead gorgeous to *ahem* repulsive. I'm just kind of afraid of making a fool of myself, rejection has made me feel like a bit of a jackass before, has to be said.


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18 Sep 2012 - 23:5091194
Quote Han Hyuga:


On a more serious note, about the singles thing, looking at you people's pictures I am... Pretty surprised a lot of you are single, to be honest!

I'd also like to say about me, that truthfully I do find it really hard to meet people. I only have one friend in my area who is into anime with me, and with both our schedules it's ultra rare we even get to meet up, let alone meet all his friends etc.

Also, much as I hate to admit it, I am kinda oblivious... I've only really had one girlfriend, and that was ages ago, it didn't last very long and didn't end very well and since then I just really can't recall any girls who've shown an interest in me or if I'm just too... Oblivious. Doesn't help that I have no friggin' clue as to how I look, I've literally heard it all from being drop dead gorgeous to *ahem* repulsive. I'm just kind of afraid of making a fool of myself, rejection has made me feel like a bit of a jackass before, has to be said.


I totally agree with the first part. Not just the fact that all the girls on here are pretty but the guys are handsome too so none of you should be having problems

I also agree with the last point. I've only ever had two girlfriends and both times they ended it. I've also been told that girls have been interested in me when it seems they don't. I guess its all an issue of convidence....and mine seems to be pretty low (the confidence is my rant part)


18 Sep 2012 - 23:5591195
Well, I'm going to the Expo next month and I'm happy to meet up with people for drinks and stuff. Will be there from Friday evening through to Monday (I'm staying Sunday night as well).

@Han - still up for that?


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19 Sep 2012 - 00:0691196
Quote Isabela:
Well, I'm going to the Expo next month and I'm happy to meet up with people for drinks and stuff. Will be there from Friday evening through to Monday (I'm staying Sunday night as well).

@Han - still up for that?
Yeah sure, it'd be nice to meet more you you guys, I've only met one or two of the posters on here in person! XD


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19 Sep 2012 - 00:1691197
Quote Han Hyuga:
Quote Isabela:
Well, I'm going to the Expo next month and I'm happy to meet up with people for drinks and stuff. Will be there from Friday evening through to Monday (I'm staying Sunday night as well).

@Han - still up for that?
Yeah sure, it'd be nice to meet more you you guys, I've only met one or two of the posters on here in person! XD


Cool I'm sure we can gather up some more people - there seem to be enough going!

If anyone else wants to meet up, let me know I don't mind organising something.


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19 Sep 2012 - 08:3491217
Quote NixieThePixie:

JaeXD, are you the Cilla Black of Cosplay Blind Date? XP



Ahaha, It's against the rules of the site to offer a dating service or similar. I'm making friends and helping you lot network, what you want to do from there is up to you :3


19 Sep 2012 - 16:3291233
ARGH! My contacts have not arrived, which was the bright point in my day today!! I'm tired after a bad night's sleep due to illness and was looking forward to getting them

I feel an email of complaint coming on....


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19 Sep 2012 - 17:0991241
Quote Isabela:
ARGH! My contacts have not arrived, which was the bright point in my day today!! I'm tired after a bad night's sleep due to illness and was looking forward to getting them

I feel an email of complaint coming on....


Arg that sucks :/ Its always annoying when things don't arrive when they are supposed to.

Also (my rant) my friends cancelled their plans for coming to Play Expo next month with me so it looks like I'm stuck going alone.


19 Sep 2012 - 17:1691242
Quote FireFaux:
Quote Isabela:
ARGH! My contacts have not arrived, which was the bright point in my day today!! I'm tired after a bad night's sleep due to illness and was looking forward to getting them

I feel an email of complaint coming on....


Arg that sucks :/ Its always annoying when things don't arrive when they are supposed to.

Also (my rant) my friends cancelled their plans for coming to Play Expo next month with me so it looks like I'm stuck going alone.


Yup, it's annoying when things don't turn up! To be fair, they did say Tuesday/Wednesday so I should probably allow another day before I unleash my wrath upon them.

You should come meet up with me and Han! No need to be alone


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19 Sep 2012 - 18:0291243
People not being able to Read on Ebay and for that matter Ebay generally grinding my gears a bit these past few XD


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