Just being nice doesn't cut it. There has to be something else there personality wise too. And I'm not asking for super smart, I just want someone you can sit and have a proper conversation with about things that if a bit more depth than Batman.
Batman is the deepest, man. He's like amazing! The perfect guy imo.
Maybe I didn't make the term clear, but the nomenclature isn't important. We could debate what a nice guy is, but then that excercise has as much merit as explaining to my mother why the sun is a giant ball of fire in the sky because bless her little cotton socks, she's only going to forget tommorrow.
I actually do get into clashes online (I say clashes but hey, I care little about the fall out, look at all the shits I don't give) when I actually give solid advice to rant/vent posts. It's like advice isn't wanted, that individuals wish to vent and complain with no solution which opens the possibilities of the negativity happening once more. I for one find as much logic in this as the Jeremy Kyle show being in any way serious. I can't help it in the same way anyone else can't help it to rant, if you exist then so do I.
So I see a response to my post and a quick washover, back to square one, I'll pop the kettle on. But that's okay, no-one asked for advice so I can't protest to that, after all it is a vent thread and I'm cool with that.
However of those of you who've known me for a while and may know me IRL will see past my somewhat cavelier attitude. Currently I have a girlfriend and I adore her very much, some of you may have seen her work on this site. A lot of my friends don't have a girlfriend even though I know them to be geniunely good guys with a lot to talk about and are just like the men you've described. They don't have great luck because they simply do not know enough people and it's a little sad when I know what they're like and how well of a boyfriend they could be.
So here's an offer, send me a message if you'd like to take a chance. We'll talk, build bridges and the next event we're at you can meet said friends. From there there's nothing else you have to do unless you want to.
It's all numbers. Meet enough people and you'll get to someone compatible, meet enough decent people and you'll get there faster.
Hey Climber, did I talk to you in the audience for the closing ceremony for Ame or did I drunkenly dream that? The half pint of jager was starting to impair my vision at that point.
Yeah you did. Sorry I wasn't that talkative. Had a few things on my mind.
It's cool, maybe next time eh? I'm not hard to miss so come find me and hang out.