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06 Oct 2011 - 14:5471704
Quote JaeXD:
Confused and wary of guys in general, which fucks things up for nice guys like me. What. I'm actually quite pleasant. Don't look so shocked.


Of recent this topic has been flying through my mind a lot. I would say *tone down ego* I am a good man, fairly funny especially in groups, I talk a fair bit and I am pretty damn clever (shit the ego escaped on that last one).

I started typing but wait .. I should explain about myself as beyond a few of the oldies on here most of you obviously will not know the ins and outs of me.

So I broke up with my Ex Ellie about 3 months ago now, we had gone out for 3 and a half years and in the end it just didn't work out (still bestest of friends which I think is where it went in the end and live together still).

Go forward a month I ask a girl out, wary of rebound but I had known her actually a long time and of the last 8 months been seeing each other as friends a lot. Now when I became single it felt like something had changed in our friendship, she became a little closer and I felt happy to see how things went ... now skip back to the asking out bit. I am a pretty god damn confident man as well as being straight forward now the signals I had felt seemed pretty simple and I felt the same, I ask her out and admit I do like her .... And she FREAKS THE FUCK OUT .. like not obviously literally but suddenly becomes quiet and then sends a load of text and things essentially just saying she just wants to be friends. Obviously a little hurt for feeling so stupid and misunderstanding things I was like ok well I maybe a little quiet .. there after the quiet emitted from her was practically black hole like ... she basically shunned me completely and I heard some pretty bad things from a mutual friend which actually really hurt .. /notgoingintothem but just I thought better of her than that.

Ok so all that was just to lead up to this vent rant bit .. from that it hammer bitch smacked my confidence soooooo much that I just feel like it is now stupidly hard to approach a girl especially as they maybe super duper fucking wary like I am a bad person ... I have always felt like a good man so it makes me feel pretty shitty that I may be observed in some other light that I can't see?

Pft and now I have a fairly heavy crush on some one else but just trying to see how it goes but I just keep having that feeling in the back of my head that she is going to react the same. And in all honesty it makes me feel stupidly sad and pretty lonely at the mo.

Doesn't help that 6 BLOODY PEOPLE I know well have found some one in the last week... and I should seriously be happy for them but I feel kinda jealous really and it is hard to be happy through that for them.

Longgggggggggg rant is longggggg but that one quote just triggered my whole mind and I kinda wanted to say it all out loud. plus some advice is always cool ammaright or ammaright.

Also here have a song that resonates .. the title may give it away http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C81SyunWMAQ


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06 Oct 2011 - 15:0971706
@Jae; Ally: I didn't know that nice guys existed anymore!

I'm sick of guys using those clichéd lines all the time. "It's just not working out", "it's not you, it's me", and "I'm going through a lot of things right now. I just can't handle a relationship". I'm not a feminist either, so I'll admit that girls are just as bad... probably worse. There are so many people who hide behind vague half-truths so they don't hurt someone's feelings, but I love bluntness. I wish I could find a guy who would break up with me by pigeon. Preferably with the message "I'm just not into you anymore! "

Ally, this guy you like(d) - he sounds lame. Anyone who fobs you off with "I'm going through a lot right now" or any variation has about as much balls as a eunuch in Greece. You deserve better; you're pretty and I'd choose you over a Victoria Beckham lookalike anyday. I know how you feel about the whole "tall, tanned skinny girls" issue. I'm about 5'5" and I never tan. I'm don't find myself fat or even chubby, but I'm not the anorexic figure that guys seem to be into now. I try not to be insecure but I mean, how secure can you be when you'd be the first thing on the menu if your school had to resort to cannibalism?

Jae, why are there not 100 more of you?


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06 Oct 2011 - 16:1571712
Kieran, dude that's super crap. You'll bounce back, just remember who your friends are. I remember when I broke with with someone, her name ryhmes with hangelica. Holy moly that was awkward seeing her after that. She spent quite a bit of time talking smack about me too, and that's just not fair. Everything I do is out in the open, what can I say, I like the attention. It's just her (quite shitty and stupid) defense mechanism.

Abcity, I feel I could hug the sparkles out of you for your wonderful use of metaphors.

There are many many more like me. However they lack the confidence or have been screwed over so bad they struggle to get back up, look at Faramon, he holds the same virtues and honour I do. I say this because I've known the bastard for almost a decade.

I've spent years learning, watching, slowly becoming numb and malevolant to the fleshy meatbags we all are. This is why I talk like I do, and I'm a monumental knobhead on the MCM Forum board, but hey I make people laugh, and I like making people smile.

But I try to be better, set an example. It takes a lot out of me, and it's so easy to fall back and do what every other twat does and look like a shaven monkey kicked through topman, then re-enact hollyoaks.

And to tell the truth, no, nice guys don't finish last. Losers who think they're nice guys do, because they don't put in the effort.



Last edited by JaeXD (06 Oct 2011 - 16:22)
06 Oct 2011 - 16:2171713
Just to say - Ally, you're really pretty! And frankly, if he only wants to like you because he has a chance with you then he's not worth it. TBH, he's probably still in the world of not wanting a gf and just someone he can screw around with. If he can't like you for you then why bother with him!

As to guys being dicks to girls and girls being dicks to guys: Really annoys me. Really really does.

Although it also sucks being single when all your friends are in relationships and are considering getting married - or actually getting married. Also makes things worse when you are gonna be attending a wedding. I s'pose that what happens when you have a social life of a dead goldfish... Maybe I should go to Uni for the single reason of forcing myself to meet new people and thus, hopefully, improving my ability to socialise with people.

Yeah.

Anyway. Had my first Driving Lesson. I was doing really well then forgot where the clutch was and stalled and panicked.

On a junction.

The driver behind me was so angry looking as well...

EDIT:

Oh and Jae. I like you being a monumental knobhead on MCM forums. It makes it an interesting place


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06 Oct 2011 - 16:2771715
So you guessed who I am?

Don't name me btw, spoils the surprise. You know, Ozzie says its totally conceited to make a fanpage for me and him on fb.

It is.

It really is.

He also said;
"You make it."



Mhm. unsure if I should. He's really shy and I care about him so much it that saying it hints on being a more than just a friendship is like saying The Smith & Wesson .500 Magnum is more than just a lead flicker.



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06 Oct 2011 - 16:2871716
Quote JaeXD:
-DAT TRUTH STUFF THAT JAE KNOWS BEST-


Thanks Dude, I think I just need to roll back into things feeling very low is all. And I hear you on that crap Bamgelica pulls - obviously was different with me and her .. I did my own crap right so kinda dug that hole but I know how she is with people.

Shit man .. we are old .. time has been flying by...


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06 Oct 2011 - 16:3371717
I just wanted to say that you people are all awesome! I've never seen such nice and helpful people in other forums!


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06 Oct 2011 - 17:5771730
Quote JaeXD:
Abcity, I feel I could hug the sparkles out of you for your wonderful use of metaphors.

There are many many more like me. However they lack the confidence or have been screwed over so bad they struggle to get back up, look at Faramon, he holds the same virtues and honour I do. I say this because I've known the bastard for almost a decade.

I've spent years learning, watching, slowly becoming numb and malevolant to the fleshy meatbags we all are. This is why I talk like I do, and I'm a monumental knobhead on the MCM Forum board, but hey I make people laugh, and I like making people smile.

But I try to be better, set an example. It takes a lot out of me, and it's so easy to fall back and do what every other twat does and look like a shaven monkey kicked through topman, then re-enact hollyoaks.

And to tell the truth, no, nice guys don't finish last. Losers who think they're nice guys do, because they don't put in the effort.


You just made my day. And considering we've just run out of coffee, that is an impressive feat.

That's what I feel like sometimes. People are arseholes. But it's nice to see a needle in the haystack every so often. You're damn hilarious and you're drier than a nun in July, but you're not a knobhead. Especially when you go so out of your way to set an example, because you're right, it is so easy to be a bastard like everyone else.

Hear, hear.


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06 Oct 2011 - 19:0971737
*works out Jae's other identity*

Crap... Why can't be more like you are here on MCM?


Oh, and you're still not allowed to hug me.


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06 Oct 2011 - 19:1671740
From this thread Luke, you can work out not only who I am on MCM, but who I used to date and how I can say I know who you are and that we've met.

You're only saying that because you really want a hug.

My change in demeanor is governed by the individuals who make up the community. Here on CI, it's a nice place to be. Whereas MCM is a flaming cesspit of weebs and idiots who need to be mocked as much as they need to breath and waste good oxygen.

But you may get your wish, since I'm not hiding the connection anymore.



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06 Oct 2011 - 20:2871748
Wut up peeps! XD

People are saying Jae is a nice guy? It's kinna true.

I still don't understand this reputation.

If you want to make it Jae, you may. It's your style to do community things. I just watch and be all Izaya. :3


06 Oct 2011 - 21:0271750
Opps typo... Fixed it now.


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06 Oct 2011 - 23:1471766
Jae is Jae ...

And Jae does as Jae has always done ... funk the shit out of those around him using what ever methods necessary.


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06 Oct 2011 - 23:1571767
I hate false positives in medical tests. !


07 Oct 2011 - 10:2071794
A few things that have been niggling at me.

1. I keep having all these messed up dreams and I can never remember what they are.
2. Guy woke me up today at like 7:30 because he was cutting a tree with a chainsaw. Thanks, dude.
3. Now for seemingly no apparent reason my dad hasn't gone into work today, which I found out when I went into his room to do my morning exercises. He didn't say anything about it and I'm loathed to ask knowing what he's like. Sometimes I can't stand spending just an evening with him, not looking forward to a whole day. D:


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07 Oct 2011 - 12:2971798
Can I just...

I've been looking for work since I finished at university in May. Since then I basically haven't had a sniff and anyone who has been unemployed knows how much this can effect your life and get you down (not only moneywise) I finally find a place that is willing to take me on. Then it turns out that I can't do an apprenticeship because I already have a degree...even though my degree is nothing at all to do with the scheme they would have me on at the college. x.x Problem is the company really is too poor to pay for me to be there full time with the minimum wage, and in order for me to do an NVQ (part funded) I have to work there at full wage for 6 months. They are dying to have me and I'm dying to work there but the numbers just don't add up.

Basically if I didn't go to university I would have a job I want right now. Instead I find myself constantly applying for places (no offence) are much more down the employment ladder (shop work etc) which also won't take me because i'm over qualified. But higher up places want experience which I CAN'T GET because apparently you need experience to get experience now. X.X Feel like I'm just stuck in a hopeless situation, a dumb government ran system that is making it impossible for me to ever find work. So now not only am I bored out of my mind every day but i'm overdrawn and beginning to lose hope.

*And breathe.*

Yeah. Just needed to get that out. ^^;


07 Oct 2011 - 17:5671822
You guys are great! Seriously! You picked me right up!!!! <3


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07 Oct 2011 - 18:2671825
Haha I'm glad we did

And for the record, I wasn't joking or saying it for shits and giggles, if circumstances were right; I totally would.


07 Oct 2011 - 19:0571827
Quote MoonLily:
Can I just...

I've been looking for work since I finished at university in May. Since then I basically haven't had a sniff and anyone who has been unemployed knows how much this can effect your life and get you down (not only moneywise) I finally find a place that is willing to take me on. Then it turns out that I can't do an apprenticeship because I already have a degree...even though my degree is nothing at all to do with the scheme they would have me on at the college. x.x Problem is the company really is too poor to pay for me to be there full time with the minimum wage, and in order for me to do an NVQ (part funded) I have to work there at full wage for 6 months. They are dying to have me and I'm dying to work there but the numbers just don't add up.

Basically if I didn't go to university I would have a job I want right now. Instead I find myself constantly applying for places (no offence) are much more down the employment ladder (shop work etc) which also won't take me because i'm over qualified. But higher up places want experience which I CAN'T GET because apparently you need experience to get experience now. X.X Feel like I'm just stuck in a hopeless situation, a dumb government ran system that is making it impossible for me to ever find work. So now not only am I bored out of my mind every day but i'm overdrawn and beginning to lose hope.

*And breathe.*

Yeah. Just needed to get that out. ^^;


Yeah, I know how you feel. However, it is amazing how much more interest you get from just working a retail job for a year. When I first started looking for jobs, I got no offers whatsoever (and it's the same time of year that I'm applying for them now, so christmas staff time). In fact, it took til June and my Granny for me to get a job. My granny was head guide at NLF (Norfolk Lavender Farm) and the manager needed new staff (cause instead of Christmas Temps they need Summer Temps). But I wasn't laid off at all - since I'm awesome lol jkjk

Apply now, after a year of employment, I've had back three offers of work (one which I can't take cause they didn't say on their website that it was in the middle of nowhere and that it would be until midnight so no chance of me getting the bus home). Yes, they're only temps/part time shop work, but the point is is that you need to get your foot in the door before you start climbing the stairs. Your just gonna have to grit your teeth and get a crappy little shop job so you get the experience and then start working for other companies. I mean, if you start climbing the ladder in that place, then it's easier for you to get a job of equal standing in another. it sucks, but that's just how it is.


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07 Oct 2011 - 20:1771830
Same old, lol, I cant seem to work out what I want do any anymore.

I have self confidence issues, so Im wondering whether I want to do this cosplay or not...I feel like I should talk to someone about it, but I dont know who.

That, and I have 12 bloodtests next week. YAY.


08 Oct 2011 - 21:4871910
Mum really annoyed me with tea tonight. I got some langoustines (basically large prawns/small lobsters) which we decided to cook for tea rather than lasagne. And I had it set in my head that it would be best to put half of the langoustines in the pan of boiling water, then do the other half, but mum was insistent that they would all fit in so I wouldn't need to.

Lo and behold, it was too much for the pan and it boiled over.

And naturally, it was my fault. I even said that I was planning on doing it half at a time and she was like "Well, why didn't you?!?!"

Cause you bloody told me to put all of them in!!!


And the damn cat has brought in a mouse! AGAIN!


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08 Oct 2011 - 22:1071915
Quote MoonLily:
Can I just...

Basically if I didn't go to university I would have a job I want right now. Instead I find myself constantly applying for places (no offence) are much more down the employment ladder (shop work etc) which also won't take me because i'm over qualified. But higher up places want experience which I CAN'T GET because apparently you need experience to get experience now.


I totally feel where you're coming from. I worry about getting a job after my current degree because of pretty much the same reasons of being turned away for being over-qualified. It makes me wonder why we even bother spending all that time and effort (not to mention the debt)!


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08 Oct 2011 - 23:5571926
ARGH!!!!! TWO MICE IN TWO HOURS!!

BAD KITTY!!!!!!!!!!!!


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09 Oct 2011 - 00:0871927
Quote NixieThePixie:
ARGH!!!!! TWO MICE IN TWO HOURS!!

BAD KITTY!!!!!!!!!!!!


Oh but its just trying to teach you how to hunt!


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09 Oct 2011 - 00:4471929
Quote Carmina:
Quote NixieThePixie:
ARGH!!!!! TWO MICE IN TWO HOURS!!

BAD KITTY!!!!!!!!!!!!


Oh but its just trying to teach you how to hunt!


I don't care! He brought in at 1:30am and just watched us running around like loons trying to catch it!!!

It's distressing more than anything else. And it bit mum.

Which was pretty funny TBH lol


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