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26 Sep 2010 - 01:1541546
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And nope, I ain't no misogynist. You're talking to a guy who holds doors for ladies and offers to lends them his coat with no strings atached

Yes, the fact that you're proud of this speaks volumes to me.


I... guess that's a good thing?


Basically no...My guess is you just gave an answer that was good 100 years ago, now it's more a correct answer to treat ladies equal to oneself


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Last edited by Ryzy-San (26 Sep 2010 - 01:15)
26 Sep 2010 - 01:1641548
Quote Ryzy-San:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote Sillabub:
Quote Chickenbits:
And nope, I ain't no misogynist. You're talking to a guy who holds doors for ladies and offers to lends them his coat with no strings atached

Yes, the fact that you're proud of this speaks volumes to me.


I... guess that's a good thing?


Basically no...My guess is you just gave an answer that was good 100 years ago, now it's more a correct answer to treat ladies equal to oneself



I see. Just thought I was doing the world a favour Guess we gentlemen are a thing of the past



Last edited by Chickenbits (26 Sep 2010 - 01:18)
26 Sep 2010 - 01:1941549
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote Ryzy-San:
Quote Chickenbits:
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Quote Chickenbits:
And nope, I ain't no misogynist. You're talking to a guy who holds doors for ladies and offers to lends them his coat with no strings atached

Yes, the fact that you're proud of this speaks volumes to me.


I... guess that's a good thing?


Basically no...My guess is you just gave an answer that was good 100 years ago, now it's more a correct answer to treat ladies equal to oneself


hmm, I thought ladies liked gentlemen. Oh well, I'll stop holding doors if it makes them feel better


Again also the wrong answer, basically you have to treat women as equal while also being respectful, your initial post gave off some vibes that come across like "I'm a big stong man grrr! I will help you because you are useless!".


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26 Sep 2010 - 01:2041550
Wow guys you need to chill out it was a joke, maybe a more male-orientated one, but still a joke! I think this reaction just proves how pissy people round here can get. Seriously guys it's the internet take it with a pinch of salt.

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Edit: I'm curious, how are you going to do Nevan? : o


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26 Sep 2010 - 01:2141551
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Wow guys you need to chill out it was a joke, maybe a more male-orientated one, but still a joke! I think this reaction just proves how pissy people round here can get. Seriously guys it's the internet take it with a pinch of salt.







Marry me.



Last edited by Chickenbits (26 Sep 2010 - 01:22)
26 Sep 2010 - 01:2341552
Quote ShadowxSong:
Wow guys you need to chill out it was a joke, maybe a more male-orientated one, but still a joke! I think this reaction just proves how pissy people round here can get. Seriously guys it's the internet take it with a pinch of salt.



I'm quite relaxed mate, wheres the arguement?


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Last edited by Ryzy-San (26 Sep 2010 - 01:23)
26 Sep 2010 - 01:2541553
Quote Ryzy-San:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote Ryzy-San:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote Sillabub:
Quote Chickenbits:
And nope, I ain't no misogynist. You're talking to a guy who holds doors for ladies and offers to lends them his coat with no strings atached

Yes, the fact that you're proud of this speaks volumes to me.


I... guess that's a good thing?


Basically no...My guess is you just gave an answer that was good 100 years ago, now it's more a correct answer to treat ladies equal to oneself


hmm, I thought ladies liked gentlemen. Oh well, I'll stop holding doors if it makes them feel better


Again also the wrong answer, basically you have to treat women as equal while also being respectful, your initial post gave off some vibes that come across like "I'm a big stong man grrr! I will help you because you are useless!".


I don't rly see how ledning a freezing girl a coat is in anyway coming off as "you are a weak worthless woman! You are nothing without me to protect you!", I think of that as a very kind thing to do, and I'd be very hapy if a girl (or guy for that matter) did the same to me.

Is being kind really that wrong? :S


26 Sep 2010 - 01:2941554
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote Ryzy-San:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote Ryzy-San:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote Sillabub:
Quote Chickenbits:
And nope, I ain't no misogynist. You're talking to a guy who holds doors for ladies and offers to lends them his coat with no strings atached

Yes, the fact that you're proud of this speaks volumes to me.


I... guess that's a good thing?


Basically no...My guess is you just gave an answer that was good 100 years ago, now it's more a correct answer to treat ladies equal to oneself


hmm, I thought ladies liked gentlemen. Oh well, I'll stop holding doors if it makes them feel better


Again also the wrong answer, basically you have to treat women as equal while also being respectful, your initial post gave off some vibes that come across like "I'm a big stong man grrr! I will help you because you are useless!".


I don't rly see how ledning a freezing girl a coat is in anyway coming off as "you are a weak worthless woman! You are nothing without me to protect you!", I think of that as a very kind thing to do, and I'd be very hapy if a girl (or guy for that matter) did the same to me.

Is being kind really that wrong? :S


No, just trying to get a grasp of the posts really? lol

Different things come across different to people lol, nothing wrong with being kind, keep it up, I mean just the boasting may across odd but meh, I'm just guessing.

You shouldn't be taking me as serious as you are lol

Oh and btw






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Last edited by Ryzy-San (26 Sep 2010 - 01:29)
26 Sep 2010 - 01:3141555
Ryzy-San: I'm not taking you that seriously xD I think we're on the same level you and I I think everything came off totally wrong

The reason why I'm careful now is because something that would'nt even raise an eyebrow on most forums caused me to apologize twice and remove the very qoute itself on this one.


Well, lesson learned lol?


26 Sep 2010 - 01:3341556
Np, back on topic I guess...


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26 Sep 2010 - 01:3341557
Quote Chickenbits:
Marry me.


Haha I gets shiny ring~?

Quote Ryzy-San:
I'm quite relaxed mate, wheres the arguement?


Yes I believe you are. It's just the people who flip out without giving the BOTD.


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26 Sep 2010 - 01:3541558
Quote ShadowxSong:
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Marry me.


Haha I gets shiny ring~?

Quote Ryzy-San:
I'm quite relaxed mate, wheres the arguement?


Yes I believe you are. It's just the people who flip out without giving the BOTD.


Yes you'll get a ring However I'm on a tight budget :/ Silver tape is quite shiny xD

Aye, people get pissed off way to easy theese days Hakuna matata, people - w -


26 Sep 2010 - 01:3741559
Quote Chickenbits:
Ryzy-San: I'm not taking you that seriously xD I think we're on the same level you and I I think everything came off totally wrong

The reason why I'm careful now is because something that would'nt even raise an eyebrow on most forums caused me to apologize twice and remove the very qoute itself on this one.


Well, lesson learned lol?


This will probably gonna get me crucified, but this is an oestrogen fuelled forum people get a lot more bitchy here than on say video-game forums.


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26 Sep 2010 - 01:3741560
Quote Chickenbits:
hmm, I thought ladies liked gentlemen. Oh well, I'll stop holding doors if it makes them feel better

Wow, I really could set my watch by you for predictable responses.

Here's a clue for you: hold the doors for everyone, regardless of their age, sex, race or disability. Do it because it is the polite, courteous and correct thing to do, do it without even thinking about it, and then go on with your life.

Don't hold doors for women simply because they are women, hold doors for them because they are human beings, and no-one likes having a door slam shut in their face. And especially don't crow about how you totally hold the door for ladies and expect nothing back, because the very act of you crowing about it shows that you want validation for being oh-so-chivalrous. That's not very gentlemanly.


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26 Sep 2010 - 01:3841561
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Marry me.


Haha I gets shiny ring~?

Yes you'll get a ring However I'm on a tight budget :/ Silver tape is quite shiny xD


Lolol an onion ring'd do then I could nom it xDDDD


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26 Sep 2010 - 01:4941562
Quote Sillabub:
Quote Chickenbits:
hmm, I thought ladies liked gentlemen. Oh well, I'll stop holding doors if it makes them feel better

Wow, I really could set my watch by you for predictable responses.

Here's a clue for you: hold the doors for everyone, regardless of their age, sex, race or disability. Do it because it is the polite, courteous and correct thing to do, do it without even thinking about it, and then go on with your life.

Don't hold doors for women simply because they are women, hold doors for them because they are human beings, and no-one likes having a door slam shut in their face. And especially don't crow about how you totally hold the door for ladies and expect nothing back, because the very act of you crowing about it shows that you want validation for being oh-so-chivalrous. That's not very gentlemanly.



Yes, you analyzed me perfectly. I only hold the doors for women, and I do it because I know that they are weak and frail and that only me, the strong man, can help them. I don't hold the door for my male friends, I slam it in their faces. Because they, unlike the frail female gender, can take the pain. It's like you analyzed my entire 19-year old life out of one comment (that I changed before I even read your reply to it) and got everything spot-on.


I never bragged about holding doors for women, I just said that I was nice to women as a simple act of kindness, as proof that don't dislike women. Now you are accusing me of being disrespectful of women... by being kind to them?

I don't thinka nyone I will say will change your mind, you've got your mind set on me being a horrible misogynist who has devoted his life to protect the "weak and frail women". You're searching me for faults so that you can attack me. And I were the one who had to apologize.


26 Sep 2010 - 01:5041563
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Marry me.


Haha I gets shiny ring~?

Yes you'll get a ring However I'm on a tight budget :/ Silver tape is quite shiny xD


Lolol an onion ring'd do then I could nom it xDDDD


But that's not shiny :/


26 Sep 2010 - 01:5141564
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Marry me.


Haha I gets shiny ring~?

Yes you'll get a ring However I'm on a tight budget :/ Silver tape is quite shiny xD


Lolol an onion ring'd do then I could nom it xDDDD


But that's not shiny :/


It is if it's greasy enough haha.


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26 Sep 2010 - 01:5641565
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Marry me.


Haha I gets shiny ring~?

Yes you'll get a ring However I'm on a tight budget :/ Silver tape is quite shiny xD


Lolol an onion ring'd do then I could nom it xDDDD


But that's not shiny :/


It is if it's greasy enough haha.


Godd point! xD I'll get you a very special wedding ring tomorrow Is mcdonalds ok? Or maybe you want the more classy ones from burger king? xD


(We're getting very off-topic, but considering how the thread turned out, maybe this is for the best )


26 Sep 2010 - 01:5941566
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Marry me.


Haha I gets shiny ring~?

Yes you'll get a ring However I'm on a tight budget :/ Silver tape is quite shiny xD


Lolol an onion ring'd do then I could nom it xDDDD


But that's not shiny :/


It is if it's greasy enough haha.


Godd point! xD I'll get you a very special wedding ring tomorrow Is mcdonalds ok? Or maybe you want the more classy ones from burger king? xD


(We're getting very off-topic, but considering how the thread turned out, maybe this is for the best )


I'm running away from the topic as fast as possible ;P

Hmm if it comes with a happy meal you got a deal ^^ (oh lord I rhymed).


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26 Sep 2010 - 02:0141567
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Quote ShadowxSong:
Quote Chickenbits:
Marry me.


Haha I gets shiny ring~?

Yes you'll get a ring However I'm on a tight budget :/ Silver tape is quite shiny xD


Lolol an onion ring'd do then I could nom it xDDDD


But that's not shiny :/


It is if it's greasy enough haha.


Godd point! xD I'll get you a very special wedding ring tomorrow Is mcdonalds ok? Or maybe you want the more classy ones from burger king? xD


(We're getting very off-topic, but considering how the thread turned out, maybe this is for the best )


I'm running away from the topic as fast as possible ;P

Hmm if it comes with a happy meal you got a deal ^^ (oh lord I rhymed).


It did xD

Oh happy meals.... I wonder what toys he give out theese days


26 Sep 2010 - 09:0541583
Sexist jokes, like casual racism, are pretty bad taste.

Also, this is getting way off topic. While the discussion is interesting, can all who're interested in the direction this thread has taken find somewhere else to continue it, be it a forum about gender and sex and attitudes, or privately on IM? I can't speak for the rest of the community but I'd breathe a sigh of relief to see this thread die on this forum.


26 Sep 2010 - 20:2141643
Quote Sillabub:
Quote Chickenbits:
hmm, I thought ladies liked gentlemen. Oh well, I'll stop holding doors if it makes them feel better

Wow, I really could set my watch by you for predictable responses.

Here's a clue for you: hold the doors for everyone, regardless of their age, sex, race or disability. Do it because it is the polite, courteous and correct thing to do, do it without even thinking about it, and then go on with your life.

Don't hold doors for women simply because they are women, hold doors for them because they are human beings, and no-one likes having a door slam shut in their face. And especially don't crow about how you totally hold the door for ladies and expect nothing back, because the very act of you crowing about it shows that you want validation for being oh-so-chivalrous. That's not very gentlemanly.


Amen, theres being a gentleman, but then theres also being curteous. Holding doors open for just a women just brings us back to the 'big man' vibe again.

I like to think im a gentleman, I can be an arse at times, but unless im in a real bad mood, I do my best to consider the people around me. And it shouldnt matter if they are a girl or not, because its just a curteous thing to do, personally I do it because it makes me happy, knowing ive helped a stranger in some little way.

Personally, I'd reccomend that maybe you quit while your ahead, as the way its going, your just getting deeper, and deeper...


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27 Sep 2010 - 00:3241665
Of course not, Theres a Diffrence Between Getting dressed in the morning and cosplaying. XD
If you do it too impress guys and #$#! X{ then your a slut XD but not when your cosplaying. inless thats why your cosplaying XD
Well life is short so I guess you can do what you want, but again, Life is short and you can ruin it with bad things like muck and toothpaste in the sink, get what I'm saying? XD Dont judge a book by its cover...only if the cover says "Sex Life" and has a girl naked on it XD
jafdugb aurigb see I can be deep XD

Lucky the dog wishs you Luck with cosplay..NO! Not On the rug.....inless its Lucky XD
FruityPower!!! ^0^


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27 Sep 2010 - 00:5141666
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hmm, I thought ladies liked gentlemen. Oh well, I'll stop holding doors if it makes them feel better

Wow, I really could set my watch by you for predictable responses.

Here's a clue for you: hold the doors for everyone, regardless of their age, sex, race or disability. Do it because it is the polite, courteous and correct thing to do, do it without even thinking about it, and then go on with your life.

Don't hold doors for women simply because they are women, hold doors for them because they are human beings, and no-one likes having a door slam shut in their face. And especially don't crow about how you totally hold the door for ladies and expect nothing back, because the very act of you crowing about it shows that you want validation for being oh-so-chivalrous. That's not very gentlemanly.


Amen, theres being a gentleman, but then theres also being curteous. Holding doors open for just a women just brings us back to the 'big man' vibe again.

I like to think im a gentleman, I can be an arse at times, but unless im in a real bad mood, I do my best to consider the people around me. And it shouldnt matter if they are a girl or not, because its just a curteous thing to do, personally I do it because it makes me happy, knowing ive helped a stranger in some little way.

Personally, I'd reccomend that maybe you quit while your ahead, as the way its going, your just getting deeper, and deeper...



Ahhh yes Now there is a reply of truth. XD
I agree with not just holding the door open but just being courteous, I'm not a ghost yet XD I'll hold the door open for you, I'll let you stand ahead of me inline if you have less things to buy, I'll help you cross the street lady...RRRRGGH CRASH!!! okay maybe not that XD
But if you have'nt washed your hands, then no Chocolate fart hand shaking. XD

Ah, Have we forgotten what the kind ladys forum is about?
Oh yeah, No worrys, No sluty panda bears
anymore ....What, thats not it?


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